Based on SunLife Cost of Dying Report 2025

What Will It Really Cost
When You're Gone?

The answer might surprise your family.

The average UK funeral plan covers £4,285. The average cost of dying is £9,797. That's a £5,512 gap your family will need to find — often within days of losing you.

£4,285
Avg funeral plan covers
£9,797
Actual cost of dying
44%
Coverage from typical plan

And here's what most people don't realise: that gap doesn't stay at £5,512. It compounds. Every year. At current inflation rates, a 50-year-old's family could face a shortfall of over £30,000 by the time they need it.

We built this calculator because we believe families deserve to know the complete picture — not just the funeral director's bill.

The Gap Nobody Talks About

Funeral plans are marketed as "peace of mind." And they do provide certainty for one part of the cost — the funeral director's fees. But dying costs more than a funeral.

What funeral plans typically cover

  • • Funeral director services
  • • Basic coffin
  • • Hearse
  • • Bearers
  • • Cremation or burial fee

What they typically don't

  • • Probate and estate administration (£1,500–£3,000)
  • • The wake — venue, catering, celebrating a life (£500–£1,500)
  • • Cemetery plot or memorial (£500–£3,000+)
  • • Death certificates, notices, legal fees
  • • Flowers, orders of service, musician
  • • Transport for family members
  • • Time off work for those arranging everything

When SunLife publishes their annual "Cost of Dying" report, they're not being dramatic. They're being accurate. The total cost — funeral plus everything else — reached £9,797 in 2024. That's the number your family actually needs.

Why This Matters More Than You Think

Consider two scenarios:

Scenario A: Traditional Funeral Plan

You're 55. You buy a £4,285 funeral plan. It grows with inflation. By 83, it's worth around £17,000.

But the total cost of dying has also grown with inflation — to around £39,000.

Your family receives £17,000 towards a £39,000 bill. They find the £22,000 shortfall while grieving.

Scenario B: Complete Coverage

Same age, same timeline. But you fund the complete £9,797 from day one.

By 83, your provision has grown to match the full cost.

Your family focuses entirely on saying goodbye.

The difference isn't just financial. It's the difference between your family dealing with money stress during their worst week — or not.

Ready to See Your Numbers?

Our calculator lets you build your actual wishes, project forward with real inflation data, and compare every funding option side by side.

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Our Calculator Shows You Everything

We've built the most comprehensive funeral cost planning tool available. It lets you:

1

Build your actual wishes

Not a generic package. Your coffin choice, your flowers, your wake, your memorial. See exactly what your send-off costs today.

2

Project forward accurately

Using real inflation data (ONS RPI feed) and adjustable growth assumptions, see what your family will actually face at different ages.

3

Compare every funding option

Side by side. Same assumptions. Clear shortfalls or surpluses. No hidden gaps.

4

Already have a funeral plan?

Our "Top-Up" mode shows exactly what's missing and how to cover it. You don't need to start again.

Five Ways to Protect Your Family

Our calculator compares these options using your numbers:

1

Funeral Plan Only

The industry standard — but only part of the picture

Covers: Funeral director fees (~£4,285)

Doesn't cover: Probate, wake, memorials, cemetery fees

Day 1 payout: Yes — funeral happens smoothly

The gap: Family covers the rest (£5,512+ today, compounding annually)

Protection: FCA regulated, FSCS protected to £85,000 (since July 2022)

Best for: Those on limited budgets who accept family will cover remaining costs

3

Loan Trust + Whole-of-Life Policy

Guaranteed payout plus inheritance efficiency

Covers: Full cost of dying

Structure: You loan money to a trust, which buys a WOL policy

On death: Policy pays out, loan is repaid, only the loan appears in your estate

Protection: FSCS protected at 100% (life insurance, no limit)

Access: You can access via loan repayments if needed

Best for: Those with IHT concerns wanting guaranteed coverage plus estate efficiency

4

Spouse ISA

The simple solution for couples

Structure: Each spouse opens an ISA in the other's name

On first death: Surviving spouse has immediate access — no probate, no wait

Growth: Same investment options as Multi-Fund

Protection: FSCS protected to £85,000

Important: Prior to second death, funds need to be withdrawn and utilised in paying funeral costs

Best for: Married couples wanting immediate access without probate delays

5

Cost of Dying Top-Up

For those who already have a funeral plan

Purpose: Bridge the gap between your existing plan and the full cost

Investment: Only the shortfall amount (typically £5,512)

Same options: Multi-Fund, Loan Trust, or Spouse ISA structures available

Outcome: Your existing plan + Top-Up = Complete coverage

Best for: Anyone with an existing funeral plan who's just discovered the gap

The Numbers Don't Lie

Based on SunLife's Cost of Dying Report 2025:

£4,285
Avg funeral cost
(what plans cover)
£9,797
Avg total cost
of dying
£5,512
The gap families
must find
£3,109
Avg debt taken on
to cover costs

That 44% coverage means families find 56% of the cost themselves. Often at short notice. Often while grieving. Often going into debt.

We're Not Here to Sell You Fear

This calculator exists because we believe in informed decisions.

We won't pretend a funeral plan is "peace of mind" when it covers 44% of the cost. We won't hide the gap and hope families don't notice. We won't push you toward the most expensive option.

We will show you the complete picture. We will let you adjust every assumption. We will present options that genuinely fit different situations and budgets.

What you do with that information is entirely your choice.

The Complete Cost of Dying Calculator

Takes about 3 minutes. Shows you everything. No obligation.

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